LeoliCat

A - Accidents

01. Have you ever been in a car accident?
nnnope
02. Do you have a lot of scars?
Yes
03. Have you ever been in a fist fight with someone?
Nope
04. Have you ever seriously hurt anyone by mistake?
mmm no
05. Have you ever had stitches?
I might have when I was little, I don't remember.

B - Beauty

06. Do you consider yourself beautiful?
nope :/
07. Are you self conscious of how you look?
I hate my appearance
08. Do you put on a lot of makeup?
I use enough
09. Would you ever consider getting plastic surgery?
I want my nose fixed....
10. What do you think makes a person beautiful?
Love, ability to love

C - Consequences

11. What was the longest amount of time you’ve been grounded for?
about 3 months when I was 16
12. What would you do if you got pregnant, keep it or have an abortion?
I wouldn't get pregnant, I'm not stoopid
13. Do you ever think about how your actions affect other people?
of course, I'm not a sociopath
14. What do you think is the worst punishment someone could give you?
rejection
15. What is one thing you wish you didn’t do, just because it wasn’t worth it in the end?
pffft I dunno, what does that even mean?

D - Dealing

16. When you are mad at someone, how do you show them?
I usually tell them straight up, unless they aren't worth it, then I figure, why bother?
17. Name a time when you had to be strong?
When I was admitted to hospital as a fresher at uni, away from home, all by myself, shit scared, attached to a drip, and in constant pain

18. Have you ever dealt with a divorce or parents fighting? Any kind of abuse at home?
Parents fighting all the while I was growing up, divorce when I was 12, never any abuse at home. unless you count emotional neglect from my father, but then loads of people have that

19. When people at school/college/uni don’t accept you, or have problems with you, how do you react?
It doesn't bother me, I have people who love me for who I am, if anyone doesn't like me its their problem
20. Have you ever lost someone to death? Explain how you got through it?
Lost someone to death? what a weirdly worded question.... yes loads of my family have died, you just, carry on, what else can you do?

E - Experience

21. Have you ever had a job? Any volunteer jobs?
I've been working since I was 15, worked in a Subway, then did a bunch of volunteer charity work, now working part time in a library while at home, and as a student ambassador (teaching kids about Higher Education) while I'm at uni

22. Do you think that you are sexually experienced, or not at all?
Yeah I'm experienced, in that I know what I'm doing ;) haha

23. Have you gone through a lot emotionally, or has life been easy thus far?
Been through some shit yeh, but the majority of people have. I found coping mechanisms....

24. Do you think you are ready to be on your own (have your own home, job, etc.)?
Definitely, I love living away from home and doing everything for myself

25. How old do you act?
Like my age...?

F - Family

26. Is there anyone in your family you don’t talk to? Why?
Not by choice, but my cousin who I grew up with cos he moved to America

27. If you had to choose, family or friends? Oh jesus I can't say that. I would never be able to choose.

28. Can you tell your parents or one of your parents anything?
hahahahaha no

29. Do you have any siblings? If so, do you ever get jealous of them?
I have an older bro, I'm not jealous of him, I just get sad that he's not interested in me at all.

30. How often do you spend ‘quality time’ with family members?
They aren't interested in me

G - Growing

31. How tall are you? How tall do you wish you were?
I'm 5ft 5 but I like being kinda little,

32. Do you think that you have grown more in the past year than any year before that?
I stopped growing a couple of years ago

33. As a person, do you think you are mature for your age or still act childish?
People have always said I act far older than I am, there's nothing wrong with being childish now and then though :)

34. Are you scared to think that one day you will turn 30, then 40, then 50?
Age, death, not being young any more, scares the shit out of me

35. Do you believe you still have a lot to learn?
Who doesn't?

H - Hope

36. Love - real or not?
Its my reason for living, so if its not real, kill me now

37. Are you a pessimist or an optimist?
I always think the worst will happen

38. Do you believe in fate, that everything happens for a reason, or do you think that our actions lead the way?
I used to study philosophy, I can't be arsed to answer this question, it would lead to an entire essay

39. Do you think that after we die our spirit is still alive?
See above

40. What gives you hope when you just feel like dying?
my boyfriend, and my friends

I - Issues

41. Do you suffer from depression or constant sadness/loneliness?
I was diagnosed with depression a while back, I've been getting it since I was about 14 though, and I live for and love people, so I get super lonely when I'm by myself

42. Do you have any type of disease or disability?
I have arthritis,

43. Are you currently in a hard relationship or have bad luck with the opposite sex?
Every relationship takes work, but no, I love my bf to bits :) it would be harder without him

44. Do you think that you are alone in this world?
I strive for the opposite

45. How often do you think about death, suicide or running away?
I used to a lot, I try not to any more


J - Jokes

46. Say a word or phrase that would not be funny to anyone but you & one of your friends (an inside joke).
"Cheese and wiiiiine Tarquin!! "
alternatively,
"aaarkk!!... tis the antiques eagle!" haha

47. Are you usually the one who makes people laugh, or the other way around?
I'm told I'm pretty funny, and I love making people laugh, but I giggle loooads so a bit of both really

48. Do you cry when you laugh hard?
sometimes hehe

49. Write down a hilarious moment you had with someone that makes you laugh to this day!
At reading 08 when we strapped Timmy to a chair with ductape, put a rubber horses head on him and gave him a beer bong through the mouth hole haha

50. Do you ever get in trouble for laughing or talking a lot during class?
Me and Vix used to get told off for giggling so much hehehe

K - Knowledge

51. The purpose of school/college/uni: to learn, to cause trouble or to hang out with friends?
all of the above, I love Uni so much

52. Do people refer to you as smart, dumb, or average?
I act and talk like I'm ditzy sometimes, but I'm kinda smart I guess, in that I'm studying for a law degree and learning Japanese

53. What was the highest grade you have received ever?
Erm, a couple of firsts at degree level

54. What was your last average? This year would you like to maintain it or aim higher?
erm a 2:2, hopefully gonna be pushing it up to a 2:1 with my dissertation this year

55. What do you find the most interesting subject to be (to study or to talk about)?
to study, criminal law, to talk about, I guess general ethics, or philosophy

L - Love

56. Are you currently in love? If not, have you been before?
Yes :)
57. Do people around you show you a lot of love (tell you they love you, hug you, kiss you, etc.)?
I don't want to think about this :(

58. Is love worth it?
of course

59. Do you hate it when girls in their young teenage years say they ‘love’ someone that they’ve been dating for a few months?
Silly little girls will always be silly little girls

60. Does it take a lot for you to say you love someone, or is it just a word?
I love quite freely, but I always make sure I mean it

M - Money

61. Do you believe that money makes the world go round?
I think it does the opposite, not a fan of religion, but the bible got it right when it said money is the root of all evil

62. Is your family on the poor side, average, or above average when it comes to money?
What a rude question!

63. Are you saving up for college/university, or planning to?
I'm almost in my final year of uni, with a shitload of debts

64. Would you rather win millions of dollars & be set for life, or find the perfect person to marry & start a family with?
I'm already with someone I love to bits, so I guess the money haha

65. On a scale of 1-10, how important is money to you?
4 I'll say, I like to be comfortable, and not have to worry, and have enough for the very few things I enjoy that cost money, but I prefer people, love, and the things that are free

N - Naughty

66. Are you a virgin?
no
67. What do you think about doing sexual things with someone you’re not going out with?
Ok first of all this question makes no sense, but no I don't think about anyone else

68. Do you know anybody you consider a ’slut’? What makes you say that?
I wouldn't judge any women like that, promiscuity in women is often due to low self esteem, and I know how much it hurts when someone does call you a slut, or when everyone you know is saying it behind your back....so I don't talk about women that way

69. If you could, would you erase some things you did in the past or make it so you did more?
I would erase one person.

70. Do you consider yourself more nice or more naughty? You can’t say both!
Fuck you question! I am both and I love it! Seriously anyone who knows me would say the same

O - Openness

71. How long does it take for you to open up to someone?
a bit longer than most I suppose, unless I connect with them

72. What does it take for you to fully trust someone?
Time, a long long time

73. Are you generally untrusting towards people because of past experiences, or any other reason?
hmmm a couple of people who have hurt me make me trust people less

74. When are you comfortable with someone sexually?
It depends, sex is different with each person you have sex with, I don't associate sex with love unless I love the person, so pretty quickly unless I love them


75. When it comes to parents and close friends, what’s the limit of what you can tell them?
I tell close friends pretty much everything, but parents, I only tell them what they need to know...

P - Positive

76. Have you ever had an experience with someone that didn’t necessarily end positively? If so, would you rather erase the memory of that person because of the sad times or keep the memory of that person because of the good times?
Yes, a couple of people, my first bf stalked me, (he was a dickhead),. if I could erase ever knowing him that would be good; and a couple of friends who used me and then let me down, still hurts, I like to remember the good times with those people, but it does make me sad

77. Do you agree with the saying: better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all?
I suppose, but the pain can be unbearable.

78. Are you more optimistic or pessimistic? What do you try to be?
Meh, didn't I already answer this one?

79. Do you agree that something good can come out of everything?
Mmm, I guess even bad situations can teach you not to make the same mistakes, or make you a stronger person, it all depends on how you deal with things

80. Have you ever had a time where something really bad happened, but something really good happened because of it? If so, please exlain what it was:
mmm... i don't think so....

Q - Questions

81. When faced with a problem, do you ask for help or try to figure it out yourself?
I can always solve everyone else's problems, but not my own, so i tend to depend on those closest to me when I have a problem

82. Do you often question the world and how we came about? What are some things you would like to know about creation?
I leave the answers to the scientists, and I guess I want to know the same things everyone else does about creation...

83. Do you think the government is truthful?
there are things every government has to cover up... but the recent tax scam showed us they cover up things they shouldn't be....

84. When someone does something wrong to you, do you confront them and ask them why they did it or just let it go?
I wait till the perfect time, when they least expect it.....

85. What is one unsolved mystery about the world that you want answers to?
Why people hurt people...

R - Respect

86. How do you show respect?
understanding, and never thinking people are below me

87. What can someone do for you to lose all respect for them?
Talk about me or the people I love behind my back, hurt someone I love

88. Do you respect your teachers, parents, and other authority figures?
I dislike authority, especially unearned authority

89. When you are disrespectful to your parents, what is the punishment?
pfft shit question

90. If someone is mean to you, are you mean back or do you kill them with kindness?
I can give as good as I get, but I don't tend to be mean to anyone

S - School

91. If you are still in school, what grade will you be going into?
I'm at uni, and I'm aiming for a 2:1

92. When will you graduate high school/college?
I left school in erm... 2006? maybe

93. After high school, what did you do/are you planning to do?
I already did, and I went to uni

94. Do you like or hate school? What do you like/hate about it?
I HATED every minute of school. most of the other kids were fucking evil. they can all go fuck themselves for making my life a misery for so long.

95. Have you ever been suspended, expelled, or dropped out of school?
nope, none of the above, I was usually very queit and worked hard. No one noticed though

T - Temptation

96. Have you ever done something wrong, knowing it was wrong, because something inside of you said it was okay?
yeah a few things, but life is all about trial and error

97. Has anyone ever pressured you to smoke or drink? Did you do it?
errrm, yes and yes, when I was about 14

98. Did you ever cheat on someone? Why did you do it?
Pass.

99. Did you ever want to do something sexual with someone you didn’t really know or love? What did you end up doing?
ok seriously personal, but yes, and we slept together, I'd rather not think about it

100. Do you give in to temptation easily, or are you more independent and strong willed?
I'm a sucker for temptation :s

U - Unique

102. Do you do a lot of things because your friends are doing it?
nope, my friends wouldn't be my friends if I was like that

103. Do you follow trends, wear whatever you want, or wear really unique pieces?
I wear whatever I feel like

104. Do you give in easily to peer pressure? Do you do things such as smoke, drink, or have casual sex?
mmm not anymore

105. What makes you different from people your age?
I suppose, my music taste is quite different from people around me

V - Value

106. What’s the most expensive thing in your room?
my laptop

107. What’s more valuable: your life or the lives of your loved ones? Would you sacrifice your life for other people?
loved ones, and yes, if I loved them enough

108. What is something you value not because it cost a lot, but because it means a lot to you?
my necklace that I lost a few months ago :'(

109. If there was a fire in your house/apartment, what is the first thing you would grab?
my bf haha

110. Do you think past memories and experiences are more valuable than what could possibly happen in the future?
it all has its place


W - Wishes

111. If you had three wishes, what would they be?
to accept myself, for everyone I love to be happy and have everything they need, and to live long enough to do everything I want to

112. Would you rather wish yourself to be happy, or your loved ones?
my loved ones, as I guess this would make me happy

113. Do you believe that wishes come true if you really believe in them?
I don't live in a disney movie.... so no

114. Have you ever had a wish come true? If so, what was that wish?
Yeah, and I wish it hadn't

115. Do you find wishing for things a waste of time because everything that’s meant to happen, will happen?
there's no point living your life and wishing for stuff that will never happen, you have to make the most of what you have, and work hard for what you need

Y - You

121. Are you more independent or social?
Social

122. What is something that makes you very mad when you see it?
violence, cruelty

123. Do you think that you have potential to do great things?
I can try my best, we all have to

124. What kind of person would you be if you didn’t have guidance from family members, God, teachers, etc.? Do you think people are born a certain way, or develop their personalities based on what they go through life?
I don't believe in God, family members can only do so much, as an adult I prefer to learn from my own experiences, people are born with certain traits, but I think experience shapes people, you can see that from trends such as how the majority of people born into rich families who never have to work take things for granted etc

125. Do you think people are generally good?
I don't know, I'd like to think so, but life has often taught me otherwise

Z - Zest

126. Are you currently happy with your life? Why or why not?
Atm, its ok, I miss my bf and my friends so much, I have no friends round here, and I'm kinda lonely, and will be till I move away again in september

128. When change occurs, do you get scared or are you excited for it?
I tend to get scared but then realise it was for the best

129. Do you like to try new things, meet new people?
I love meeting people and trying stuff

130. What is the most motivational thing in the world?
helping people who need it most